EVOLUTION OF MY THOUGHT PROCESS…
This chapter contains how my thought process has evolved over the years and the reason behind it.
Initially especially during my UG days I was always inspired by Bollywood, so I wanted to become the most eligible bachelor, to be the heartthrob of girls, to be wildly rich, insanely handsome with good physique. Later on, as I saw these things can be exciting and give short term pleasure it is not solution for long lasting happiness and peace. I have seen many love marriages failing miserably like ending up in divorces and suicides. I have found out that there is so much misery in the world and helping miserable people come out of misery is one of way to make one happier and gives us long lasting peace. Initially I was not in favor of donating money and keeping it all ourselves and enjoy all the luxury but materialistic things only give short term pleasures, on a broader perspective balanced life is key to long-term peace and happiness. So, I started donating fraction of my earning during postgraduation days.
Initially I was not believing in spiritual and godly things but now I am one of the most ardent follower and devotee of lord Krishna, Lord Shiva and all Goddess. I take Lord Hanuman as role model as a devotee, so I am his disciple and want to be like him. I pray Lord Ganesha for wisdom. These are the things I started believing after I experienced so many miracles in my life. It is not that if u start worshipping God all your miseries will disappear, instead they may increase. But that is the path of righteousness. Even God will test u many times but you have to keep faith and keep doing your work. Here God will give you the strength to face problems and even protect you if you follow righteous path. You can make N number of friends but when u need help nobody or very few genuinely will be there during the time of need. But God will be always the first one to come forward to help you and last one to take the credit. So, connection with GOD will you provide security and if you are devoted to him, you will enjoy every moment of life.
Initially during postgraduation days I was always in favor of doing all the work within short span of time which I called efficiency. But later on, I realized that doing work at natural pace is much more beneficial and long-term satisfactory solution rather than speeding up the pace of work. This will reduce unnecessary anxiety and bring balance in life. Also, I have realized that having more knowledge is not important instead having common sense is more important. If u have common sense and can apply your limited knowledge in effective way you can succeed. That why many academic failures have become successful businessman and politicians.
Initially I was in favor of controlling all things and making everyone do their work, but later on I have realized letting things progress as per Gods plan will always give you the best result. So instead of controlling everything letting go of things as per Gods plan is always best. I have also realized that anything excess is disease. Either excess of money, beauty, power, or strength all they come with side effects. So, everything should be at optimum level for long-term success and stability. The most important thing to succeed is ability to accept failure and handle it is most important trait to be successful. Many great successes have come after series of failures like KFC founder, Thomas Alva Edison etc...
So, my last message to youth life is at its best when we go according to Gods plan at natural pace and with optimum money, health, power and beauty. All these things should be balanced then only it will be beneficial in long-term. connecting to spiritual world gives you extra layer of security and inner harmony.
